Modern life runs on efficiency.

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Squeezing the most out of every minute

has become a survival skill.

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With a mountain of obligations and

a family schedule that looks

more like a battle plan,

we fill every gap and

optimize every

resource.

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On paper, it all works perfectly —

every minute accounted for.

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But what happens

when your car gets a flat

you can’t find the other shoe

your kid wakes up with a fever

your technology turns against you?

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Your carefully orchestrated, ultra-precise operation falls apart completely.

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Because when reality hits, something has to give.

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And when we’ve built our days with no room for error,

that ‘something’ isn’t just our schedule — it’s us.

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Those hiccups throw off our sense of equilibrium.

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The illusion of control that gets baked into

our ultra-managed schedules

evaporates, along with

our patience.

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And suddenly we find ourselves losing our minds

over a chance occurrence that we never

could have accounted for in a plan.

“Perfect planning” is not the same as true preparedness.

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Preparedness requires resilience

and resilience requires slack:

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energy, time, attention and emotional bandwidth

that isn’t precisely allocated and

already spoken for.

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We tend to think of resilience as the ability to push through,

but real resilience comes from having the

capacity to bend without breaking.

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When every ounce of energy, every moment of time and every bit of attention is accounted for,

there’s nothing left to absorb stress, navigate setbacks or handle the unexpected

(you know, the stuff that exists in reality, but not in our perfect plans).

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This is why so many of us feel

depleted and overwhelmed

and why we struggle

to adapt.

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We’re running on fumes, not reserves.

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Without reserves, every setback feels like a crisis.

With them, you create the capacity

to recover and recalibrate.

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In this issue, three actionable strategies

to fill energy reserves so you can build resilience

and absorb life’s inevitable inconveniences without falling apart.

Building Energy Reserves: The Key to Keeping it Together

Energy reserves provide a buffer against depletion

and a secret stockpile of resilience.

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We tend to think of energy as just physical,

but resilience requires reserves in three key areas:

• Physical Energy → Your body’s stamina and ability to recover.
• Emotional Energy → Your ability to regulate stress and engage with others.
• Cognitive Energy → Your mental clarity and decision-making capacity.

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Building reserves in all three areas creates

the flexibility and adaptability that

resilience requires.

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Here’s how to do it.

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1. Optimize Recovery Windows (Physical Energy)

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What to do:

Create intentional recovery windows throughout the day,

whether through movement, breath work or strategic rest.

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This could mean

doing an AM/PM stretch routine,

taking a 10-minute walk between meetings

or committing to a consistent sleep routine.

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How it helps:

Physical energy is the foundation of

stamina, endurance, and overall well-being.

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When you replenish your body with small sips,

you reduce overall fatigue and improve

your ability to manage stress.

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Tip for Founders:

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Schedule recovery breaks into your calendar, just like you would a meeting

and set the standard and expectation for your team to do the same.

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Protecting even 15 minutes of movement or stillness can increase productivity.

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2. Regulate Input and Connection (Emotional Energy)

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What to do:

Be intentional about who and what gets your emotional energy.

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This means setting boundaries around draining interactions,

creating space for positive relationships and

prioritizing activities that feed you

spiritually & energetically.

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How it helps:

Emotional energy is

what allows you to maintain tolerance,

tap into compassion, stay composed and regulate stress.

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When reserves are low, even small frustrations & provocations feel overwhelming.

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Tip for Founders:

Protect your emotional bandwidth by setting

structured boundaries for high-demand,

energy-draining relationships.

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If an investor or key customer constantly pulls your focus and drains your life force,

create a predictable system for engagement, like scheduled check-ins and

clear communication channels or a designate a point person

who can handle lower-priority concerns.

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Instead of reacting to every request in real time,

proactively set expectations around when and how you engage,

so their demands don’t consume your emotional energy at the expense of your own priorities.

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3. Design for Mental Clarity (Cognitive Energy)

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What to do:

Reduce cognitive overload by simplifying decisions,

creating mental space for deep thinking

and structuring your work for focus.

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This could include setting a “no-meeting” focus block,

using decision-making tools & frameworks

or limiting low-value distractions.

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How it helps:

Cognitive energy fuels focus, strategic thinking, and problem-solving.

When reserves are depleted, decision fatigue sets in,

leading to reactivity instead of intentionality...

not to mention subpar outcomes.

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Tip for Founders:

Identify your peak cognitive hours and block them for deep work.

Delegate repetitive or low-value decisions to conserve mental energy for strategic thinking.

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In addition, you can preserve decision-making capacity​

and limit decision fatigue by deciding in advance.

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Batch meal planning, automate tasks where possible and

set defaults for predictable choices so you’re not

constantly making micro-decisions all day long.

Final Thought: Resilience is Built, Not Borrowed

Here’s the thing about resilience:

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You can’t borrow it when you need it,

you have to build it in advance.

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Which means, you have to

create energy reserves

BEFORE you hit

depletion.

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Start small.

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Protect a recovery window, reduce cognitive clutter or

set a boundary with an energy vampire today.

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Small shifts compound,

creating a stockpile of resilience and the capacity

to absorb stress and stay strong, no matter what life throws your way.

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What will you do to build a stockpile for resilience?

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Hit reply and let me know.

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all the issues.

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xx, Nicole

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